इंटरनेट की दुनिया में सबसे ज्यादा शादी के वीडियो देखे और पसंद किये जाते हैं. यहां कब, क्या देखने-सुनने को मिलेगा, कुछ कहा नहीं जा सकता? कभी-कभी कुछ वीडियो दिल को छू जाते हैं तो कुछ लोगों को हंसाते हैं. तो फिलहाल इन दिनों एक दूल्हा-दुल्हन का एक वीडियो खूब देखा जा रहा है, जिसे लोग बार-बार देखने पर मजबूर हो रहे हैं. वीडियो में एक जोड़ा शादी के बाद दोपहर में दौड़ता नजर आ रहा है. वीडियो को देखकर ऐसा लग रहा है कि दोनों अपनी ढीली कार को पकड़ने की कोशिश कर रहे हैं.
सोशल मीडिया पर वायरल हो रहे इस वीडियो में जैसे ही जोड़ा शादी के बाद कच्ची सड़क पर दौड़ता नजर आ रहा है, लोग असमंजस में हैं कि आखिर मामला क्या है? वैसे तो लोग अपनी शादी को यादगार बनाने के लिए क्या कुछ नहीं करते लेकिन ये वायरल वीडियो आपके होश उड़ा देगा. वीडियो में दूल्हा-दुल्हन के पीछे अपराधी भी भागते नजर आ रहे हैं. उसी समय दूल्हा-दुल्हन के सामने एक तेज रफ्तार गाड़ी आ जाती है. अब दूल्हा-दुल्हन गाड़ी पकड़ने के लिए दौड़ रहे हैं या कोई रस्म निभा रहे हैं, इसका अंदाजा आप इस वीडियो को देखकर ही लगा सकते हैं.
इस वायरल वीडियो को देखकर हर किसी की हंस-हंसकर हालत खराब हो गई है. इस वीडियो को देखने के बाद सोशल मीडिया यूजर्स भी इस पर अपनी प्रतिक्रिया दे रहे हैं. वीडियो को सोशल मीडिया प्लेटफॉर्म इंस्टाग्राम पर ‘rkhan6549’ नाम के अकाउंट से शेयर किया गया है. इस वीडियो को अब तक लाखों लोग देख चुके हैं. साथ ही इस वीडियो को चार लाख से ज्यादा लोग लाइक कर चुके हैं. एक यूजर ने लिखा, ‘यह कोई रिवाज है.’ वहीं, कुछ लोगों ने कहा, ‘यह दूल्हा-दुल्हन के साथ नाइंसाफी है.’
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The bride and groom are central figures in a wedding, representing the union of two people in marriage. Here’s an overview of what traditionally surrounds the bride and groom in a wedding context:
1. Roles and Responsibilities
- Bride:
- Preparation: Traditionally, the bride is involved in planning the wedding, including choosing the dress, flowers, and décor. She may have the support of a maid of honor and bridesmaids.
- Attire: The bride typically wears a wedding dress, often white or ivory, symbolizing purity and new beginnings. The style can vary greatly, from traditional gowns to more modern or cultural designs.
- Traditions: Depending on the culture, the bride may follow traditions like wearing “something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue,” or participating in pre-wedding rituals like henna (mehndi) in some cultures.
- Groom:
- Preparation: The groom’s role in planning might be more focused on logistics, such as choosing the venue, the officiant, and coordinating with the best man and groomsmen.
- Attire: The groom traditionally wears a suit or tuxedo, though cultural attire may also be worn depending on the wedding’s traditions.
- Traditions: The groom might partake in traditions like not seeing the bride before the ceremony or carrying the bride over the threshold after the wedding.
2. Ceremony Highlights
- Vows: The bride and groom exchange vows, which are promises made to each other, often personalized to reflect their relationship.
- Exchange of Rings: The exchange of wedding rings symbolizes eternal love and commitment. Rings are typically placed on the fourth finger of the left hand.
- First Kiss: The ceremony often concludes with the couple’s first kiss as newlyweds, symbolizing their union.
- Unity Rituals: Some ceremonies include unity rituals, such as lighting a unity candle or blending two colors of sand, symbolizing the joining of two lives.
3. Reception Traditions
- First Dance: The bride and groom share a first dance as a married couple, often to a song that holds special meaning to them.
- Toasts and Speeches: The best man, maid of honor, and sometimes the parents of the couple give speeches to celebrate the bride and groom.
- Cake Cutting: The couple cuts the wedding cake together, often feeding each other the first slice as a symbol of their commitment to care for each other.
- Bouquet and Garter Toss: The bride tosses her bouquet to the single women in attendance, and the groom may toss the garter. These are playful traditions believed to bring good luck in love.
4. Cultural Variations
- Western Weddings: Typically include a white dress for the bride, a formal ceremony, and a reception with dinner, dancing, and cake.
- Indian Weddings: May include a multi-day celebration with various rituals, such as the Sangeet, Mehndi, and Baraat, with the bride often wearing red or other vibrant colors.
- Chinese Weddings: Traditionally feature a tea ceremony, where the couple serves tea to their elders as a sign of respect, with the bride often wearing a red dress.
- African Weddings: Can include rituals like the “Tying of the Knot” or jumping the broom, with the bride and groom often wearing attire that reflects their cultural heritage.
5. Symbolism
- Wedding Rings: Represent eternal love, with no beginning or end.
- Wedding Veil: Traditionally, the veil symbolizes modesty and purity.
- Bouquet: Often made of flowers symbolizing love, fertility, and new beginnings.
- Wedding Cake: Represents prosperity and good fortune.
6. Modern Trends
- Personalized Ceremonies: Many couples now write their own vows, choose non-traditional music, or incorporate elements that reflect their unique relationship.
- Destination Weddings: Some couples opt for destination weddings, marrying in a location that holds special meaning or offers a picturesque setting.
- Eco-Friendly Weddings: Sustainability is becoming a priority, with couples choosing eco-friendly attire, décor, and catering.
- Equality in Roles: More couples share wedding planning responsibilities equally, reflecting modern values of partnership and equality.
The wedding day is a deeply personal and significant event for the bride and groom, full of traditions, rituals, and celebrations that mark the beginning of their life together.